Let the lines \( l_1 : \dfrac{x+5}{3} = \dfrac{y+4}{1} = \dfrac{z-\alpha}{-2} \) and \( l_2 : 3x + 2y + z - 2 = 0 = x - 3y + 2z - 13 \) be coplanar. If the point \( P(a,b,c) \) on \( l_1 \) is nearest to point \( Q(-4,-3,2) \), then \( |a| + |b| + |c| \) is equal to: