Let the mean and variance of \( 8 \) numbers \( -10, -7, -1, x, y, 9, 2, 16 \) be \( \frac{7}{2} \) and \( \frac{293}{4} \), respectively. Then the mean of \( 4 \) numbers \( x, y, x + y + 1, |x - y| \) is:
\( 12 \)
\( 10 \)
\( 9 \)
\( 11 \)