If the shortest distance between the lines \( \frac{x-\lambda}{3}=\frac{y-2}{-1}=\frac{z-1}{1} \) and \( \frac{x+2}{-3}=\frac{y+5}{2}=\frac{z-4}{4} \) is \( \frac{44}{\sqrt{30}} \), then the largest possible value of \( |\lambda| \) is equal to ______.