Let \( z \) be a complex number such that \( |z+2| = |z-2| \) and \( \arg\!\left(\frac{z+3}{z-i}\right) = \frac{\pi}{4} \). Then \( |z|^{2} \) is equal to:
\( 9 \)
\( 4 \)
\( 5 \)
\( 1 \)